Bald Heads, Baby Bums and Big Feelings: Baby Oil Exposed – with a quick DIY

Bald Heads, Baby Bums and Big Feelings: Baby Oil Exposed – with a quick DIY

Aiden van Wyk

You're lifting your little one from a just warm enough bath. They don't quite know how to play in the water yet, but they are highly ranked, world-class experts at the art of waving their tiny chubby arms and looking up at you - looking up at you with those eyes.

You feel a connection that's impossible to describe but everybody who knows, knows...

You have been blessed.

They smile at you.

It's probably just a little wind causing that grin to spread across their face, but you simply can't help melting when they smile at you like that. These are the moments that the exhaustion just slips away.

You look to apply the baby oil to your bundle of love and find down in your hands a mystery...

"What is this though? There is no baby seeds to get the oil from - what is baby oil?"

You flip the bottle and you find: Mineral Oil and Parfum.

Oh.

A little confused - you're not sure whether that means it's unsafe, or bad for the environment, or what mineral oil really is but you do know this: You don't want to put petroleum on your precious. Petroleum or Parfum.

If this sounds familiar to you, don't worry, making baby oil yourself is actually really easy - and can be done in a way that nourishes your baby's skin and your own - an unspoken bonus. Kindly read on for a quick guide to baby oil and how to DIY a natural alternative that nourishes your babys' skin.

What is Baby Oil?

Baby Oil is a completely oil-based ingredient - as the name implies - and is usually 98% Mineral Oils - a petroleum derivative - and a little fragrance. This means that all it does is form a barrier without adding any nutrients. This could be fine as it's non-allergenic, highly stable (doesn't go rancid) and locks in moisture - it gets the job done - but for those looking to reduce their reliance on petroleum-based ingredients, it may not be the first choice.

Why is Petroleum bad?

Petroleum is derived from fossil fuels, making it a non-renewable resource that can't meet ECOCERT standards. Its extraction and processing contribute significantly to environmental harm - like oil spills, water contamination, and greenhouse gas emissions.

While some carbon footprint is part of modern living, it's still worth choosing more natural, renewable, and eco-conscious alternatives wherever possible. Small shifts in our daily lives do add up - and help ensure a healthier future for both our skin and our home.

Is baby oil safe?

Baby Oil contains no nutrients (like lipids or fatty acids), so it doesn't harm or nourish the skin microbiome - so while baby oil is generally safe, it seems almost like a wasted opportunity. For people interested in microbiome-friendly skincare, natural oils with bioactive components (like sunflower, rosehip, or jojoba) are better options - as they support both barrier repair and microbial diversity.

Can adults use Baby Oil? How?

I know it seems like a silly question; but in all honestly I wasn't exactly sure how/if I (a full grown man) could use baby oil. All I recall is that my dad always has a bottle in his cupboard - and I suspect it had something to do with that shiny bald head.

Now, I'm not bald.

Ironically, many babies are.

So I figured there must be more to this product than meets the eye. Let's take a look at how it's actually used for babies:

  • It locks in moisture after a bath.
  • It's used for dry patches, cradle cap or mild eczema.
  • If you give your baby a massage - like the classic stomach rub you give babies for winds - this can be a great lubricant.
  • Some folks find it useful as a barrier against nappy rash.
  • Soothes delicate skin.

All of this works so well because baby oils are gentle on the skin and great at sealing in moisture.

In adults, baby oil is often used as a moisturiser for dry skin after a shower or applied to cracked heels for added softness. Some men use it as a substitute for shaving cream, while many women apply it during pregnancy in hopes of reducing stretch marks. Since Baby Oils are essentially branded mineral oils, they don't actively prevent stretch marks - what they do is help soothe the skin and reduce discomfort associated with stretching. By reducing itching and dryness, they may indirectly help minimize skin damage, though they don't address the underlying changes that cause stretch marks. It can also be used as a makeup remover, in massage oils and is sometimes used in nail care to soften nails.

Making your own natural Baby Oil:

At first glance, making your own baby oil seems simple - right? Just use an oil and shout BABY!

Well… it sort of is? While it's easy in theory, there are some key characteristics to consider.

Baby oils are traditionally lightweight, non-allergenic, and fast-absorbing, which rules out many otherwise excellent oils - like castor oil, virgin coconut oil (amazing for eczema), and even sweet almond oil. If an oil is too rich it'll leave a residue on your baby's skin, and that may cause a bit of mess and stickiness on your baby.

Below are some great lightweight carrier oils that you can use on their own or blend to create your own custom baby oil that's suitable for adults too:

  • Fractionated Coconut Oil: Light, silky, and completely non-greasy. It absorbs quickly and has a long shelf life. It is suitable for all skin types - even oily and sensitive skin.
  • Safflower Oil: A gentle, non-comedogenic oil rich in linoleic acid. It absorbs quickly (though not as fast as fractionated coconut) and is great for sensitive or acne-prone skin.
  • Grapeseed Oil: Very light and a little astringent, making it perfect for oily or blemish-prone skin. It's high in linoleic acid and fast-absorbing.
  • Hemp Seed Oil: This is a greenish oil with a thin texture and subtle antibacterial properties. It helps balance oil production, making it ideal for combination skin.
  • Camellia Seed Oil: Fancy and dry-feeling, this oil is high in oleic acid, which deeply nourishes without heaviness. It's best for particularly dry skin and less ideal for acne-prone types.
  • Rosehip Oil: A dry, fast-absorbing oil packed with natural vitamin A (a gentle retinoid-like effect). This is excellent for skin with marks or skin needing nourishment, though do use sparingly on very oily skin.

Note: Please patch test this on your precious little one before applying it fully - it's always better to catch/note any sensitivity early, just in case.

 

DIY Nourishing Baby Oil

When making your own Baby Oil, you can choose one of the lightweight oils above and call it done - or customise it to best fit you :)

I personally like the idea of a nourishing version - great for adults as a body or face oil for mature skin, for baby dry patches (as long as there's no sensitivity to rosehip), and even as an after-sun repair oil:

In a clean bottle, combine:

To extend shelf life, add 1% Vitamin E Acetate.

You can also customise your oil further:

Before infusing herbs, research whether the plant components are oil-soluble or water-soluble - Google is your generous bestie in this regard. If they're oil-soluble, go ahead with a simple oil maceration to infuse their properties into your blend.
Note: If you plan to use this on children, make sure any added essential oils are safe for babies by reading here.

Aiden van Wyk

Aiden is an eccentric explorer of ideas, endlessly curious and always eager to share his discoveries. His mind is a maze of rabbit holes, each leading to new insights (and occasionally pure chaos). In all honesty - he's a little impulsive, he's easily distracted, delightfully scatterbrained, and unapologetically himself. But through every deep dive and misstep, his mission remains the same:

To make the world a teeny tiny little better, one lesson at a time :)